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As providers and caretakers, adults tend to view the world of children as happy and carefree. After all, kids don't have jobs to keep or bills to pay, so what could they possibly have to worry about?
Plenty! Even very young children have worries and feel stress to some degree.
Sources of Stress
Stress is a function of the demands placed on us and our ability to meet them. These demands often come from outside sources, such as family, jobs, friends, or school. But it also can come from within, often related to what we think we should be doing versus what we're actually able to do.
So stress can affect anyone who feels overwhelmed & even kids. In preschoolers, separation from parents can cause anxiety. As kids get older, academic and social pressures (especially from trying to fit in) create stress.
Many kids are
to have time to play creatively or relax after school. Kids who complain about all their activities or who refuse to go to them might be overscheduled. Talk with your kids about how they feel about extracurricular activities. If they complain, discuss the pros and cons of stopping one activity. If stopping isn't an option, explore ways to help manage your child's time and responsibilities to lessen the anxiety.
Kids' stress may be intensified by more than just what's happening in their own lives. Do your kids hear you talking about troubles at work, worrying about a relative's illness, or arguing with your spouse about financial matters? Parents should watch how they discuss such issues when their kids are near because children will pick up on their parents' anxieties and start to worry themselves.
can cause stress. Kids who see disturbing images on TV or hear talk of natural disasters, war, and terrorism may worry about their own safety and that of the people they love. Talk to your kids about what they see and hear, and monitor what they watch on TV so that you can help them understand what's going on.
Also, be aware of complicating factors, such as an illness, death of a loved one, or a . When these are added to the everyday pressures kids face, the stress is magnified. Even the most amicable divorce can be tough for kids because their basic security system & their family & is undergoing a big change. Separated or divorced parents should never put kids in a position of having to choose sides or expose them to negative comments about the other spouse.
Also realize that some things that aren't a big deal to adults can cause significant stress for kids. Let your kids know that you understand they're stressed and don't dismiss their feelings as inappropriate.Signs and Symptoms
While it's not always easy to recognize when kids are stressed out, short-term behavioral changes & such as mood swings, acting out, changes in sleep patterns, or
& can be indications. Some kids have physical effects, including stomachaches and headaches. Others have trouble concentrating or completing schoolwork. Still others become withdrawn or spend a lot of time alone.
Younger children may pick up new
like thumb sucking, hair twirling, older kids may begin to lie, , or defy authority. A child who is stressed also may overreact to minor problems, have , become clingy, or have drastic changes in academic performance.
Reducing Stress
How can you
with stress? Proper rest and good nutrition can boost coping skills, as can good parenting. Make time for your kids each day. Whether they need to talk or just be in the same room with you, make yourself available. Don't try to make them talk, even if you know what they're worried about. Sometimes kids just feel better when you spend time with them on fun activities.
Even as kids get older, quality time is important. It's really hard for some people to come home after work, get down on the floor, and play with their kids or just talk to them about their day & especially if they've had a stressful day themselves. But expressing interest shows your kids that they're important to you.
Help your child cope with stress by talking about what may be causing it. Together, you can come up with a few solutions like cutting back on after-school activities, spending more time talking with parents or teachers, developing an exercise regimen, or keeping a journal.
You also can help by anticipating potentially stressful situations and preparing kids for them. For example, let your son or daughter know ahead of time that a doctor's appointment is coming up and talk about what will happen there. Tailor the information to your child's age & younger kids won't need as much advance preparation or details as older kids or teens.
Remember that some level let your kids know that it's OK to feel angry, scared, lonely, or anxious and that other people share those feelings. Reassurance is important, so remind them that you're confident that they can handle the situation.Helping Your Child Cope
When kids can't or won't discuss their stressful issues, try talking about your own. This shows that you're willing to tackle tough topics and are available to talk with when they're ready. If a child shows symptoms that concern you and is unwilling to talk, consult a
or other mental health specialist.
Books can help young kids identify with characters in stressful situations and learn how they cope. Check out Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith V Tear Soup by Pat Schweibert, Chuck DeKlyen, and Taylor B and Dinosaurs Divorce by Marc Brown and Laurene Krasny Brown.
Most parents have the skills to deal with their child's stress. The time to seek professional attention is when any change in behavior persists, when stress is causing serious , or when the behavior causes significant problems at school or at home.
If you need help finding resources for your child, consult your doctor or the counselors and teachers at school.
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过去分词：
现在分词：
第三人称单数：
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1. (英，旧)（雇员工资）食宿免费
your wages would be five shillings all found.
你们的工资是五先令，食宿免费。
find fault
1. your wages would be five shillings all found.
你们的工资是五先令，食宿免费。
find favour
1. 受喜爱，获得欢心；被接受
the ballets did not find favour with the public.
芭蕾舞剧不受大众喜爱。
find one's feet
1. 能站立行走
1. “发现;得知;产生”释义下的同义词
2. “获得”释义下的同义词
3. “裁决;判定;决定”释义下的同义词
1. “找到,发现;得到”释义下的反义词
其他释义下的反义词
： 普通用词，指发现本来存在，但示被认识的事物、真理或情况。
： 普通用词，可指偶然发现，也可指经过寻找后得到或重新获得已失去的东西。强调动作的结果。
： 正式用词，强调经过周密观察或研究而有所获得和发现，尤指发现有意隐藏之物。
： 较正式用词，指有意搜寻与发现。
发现…的所在 If you find someone or something, you see them or learn where they are.&
【语法信息】：V n
【语法信息】：V n n
【语法信息】：Also V n for n
The police also found a pistol...
警方还发现了一把手枪。
They have spent ages looking at the map and can't find a trace of anywhere called Darrowby...
他们对着地图细看了许久也没能找到那个叫达罗比的地方的影踪。
I wonder if you could find me a deck of cards?
不知您能否为我找一副纸牌？
找到;寻得;获得 If you find something that you need or want, you succeed in achieving or obtaining it.&
【语法信息】：V n
【语法信息】：V n n
【语法信息】：V n for n
【语法信息】：Also V n for n to-inf
Many people here cannot find work...
这里很多人都找不到工作。
So far they have not found a way to fight the virus...
迄今为止，他们还没有找到一种对抗该病毒的方法。
He has to apply for a permit and we have to find him a job...
他得申请一个许可证，而我们得给他找份工作。
发现…存在(于) If something is found in a particular place or thing, it exists in that place.&
【语法信息】：be V-ed
Two thousand of France's 4,200 species of flowering plants are found in the park...
法国的 4,200 种开花植物中有 2,000种可见于这个公园。
Fibre is found in cereal foods, beans, fruit and vegetables.
谷类食品、豆类、水果和蔬菜中含有纤维素。
发现…处于某种状态;遇见;碰见 If you find someone or something in a particular situation, they are in that situation when you see them or come into contact with them.&
【语法信息】：V n -ing
【语法信息】：V n -ed
【语法信息】：V n prep/adv
They found her walking alone and depressed on the beach...
他们碰见她独自一人神色忧郁地走在海滩上。
She returned to her east London home to find her back door forced open...
她回到在伦敦东区的住所时发现后门被撬开了。
Thrushes are a protected species so you will not find them on any menu.
鸫鸟是受保护的物种，在菜谱上是找不到的。
(不知不觉中)发现(自己在做某事) If you find yourself doing something, you are doing it without deciding or intending to do it.&
【语法信息】：V pron-refl prep/adv
【语法信息】：V pron-refl -ing
【语法信息】：V pron-refl adj
It's not the first time that you've found yourself in this situation...
你陷入这种状况已经不是第一次了。
I found myself having more fun than I had had in years...
我发现自己这些年来从未像现在这样开心过。
It all seemed so far away from here that he found himself quite unable to take it in.
这事看起来好像发生在如此遥远的地方，他发现自己思想上一时难以接受。
(某一时刻或事件)把…置于某种情形中 If a time or event finds you in a particular situation, you are in that situation at the time mentioned or when the event occurs.&
【语法信息】：V n prep
【语法信息】：V n -ing
【搭配模式】：no passive
【FIELD标签】：WRITTEN 笔语
Daybreak found us on a cold, clammy ship...
天亮时我们发现自己呆在一条冰冷黏湿的船上。
His lunch did not take long to arrive and found him poring over a notepad covered with scrawls.
不久午餐就送来了，当时他正埋头于一本满是潦草字迹的记事簿。
发觉，认识到(某事属实) If you find that something is the case, you become aware of it or realize that it is the case.&
【语法信息】：V that
【语法信息】：V it adj to-inf
【语法信息】：V n to-inf
【语法信息】：V n n
The two biologists found, to their surprise, that both groups of birds survived equally well...
这两位生物学家惊奇地发现，两组鸟都很好地存活了下来。
At my age I would find it hard to get another job...
到了我这个年纪自己就会发觉很难再找到一份工作了。
We find her evidence to be based on a degree of oversensitivity...
我们认识到她提供的证据在一定程度上是出于过分敏感。
裁决;判决;判定 When a court or jury decides that a person on trial is guilty or innocent, you say that the person has been found guilty or not guilty.&
【语法信息】：be V-ed adj
【语法信息】：V n adj
She was found guilty of manslaughter and put on probation for two years...
她被裁定过失杀人罪名成立，缓刑两年。
When they found us guilty, I just went blank.
当他们判定我们有罪时，我的脑子顿时一片空白。
觉得;认为 You can use find to express your reaction to someone or something.&
【语法信息】：V n adj
【语法信息】：V it adj that
【语法信息】：V n n
I find most of the young men of my own age so boring...
我觉得和我同龄的年轻人大多都很无聊。
We're sure you'll find it exciting!...
我们保证你一定会认为这很刺激的！
I find it ludicrous that nothing has been done to protect passengers from fire...
乘客没有受到任何防火保护，这让我觉得十分荒唐。
感受到(愉快、安慰等情感) If you find a feeling such as pleasure or comfort in a particular thing or activity, you experience the feeling mentioned as a result of this thing or activity.&
【语法信息】：V n in -ing
【语法信息】：V n in n
How could anyone find pleasure in hunting and killing this beautiful creature?...
怎么会有人以猎杀这种美丽的动物为乐呢？
I was too tired and frightened to find comfort in that familiar promise.
我既疲惫又恐惧，就连那熟悉的承诺都无法让我感到安慰。
找出，挤出(时间或金钱) If you find the time or money to do something, you succeed in making or obtaining enough time or money to do it.&
【语法信息】：V n
I was just finding more time to write music...
我刚刚找到了更多时间来作曲。
My sister helped me find the money for a private operation.
姐姐帮我筹集资金开办了一家私人企业。
(有价值的)发现;(有用的)发现物 If you describe someone or something that has been discovered as a find, you mean that they are valuable, interesting, good, or useful.&
【搭配模式】：usu adj N
Another of his lucky finds was a pair of candle-holders...
他的另一个幸运发现是一对烛台。
His discovery was hailed as the botanical find of the century.
他的发现被誉为本世纪植物学的最重大发现。
Usage Note
You can use find, find out, or discover to
talk about learning that something is the case.The young child finds that noise attracts attention... He discovered the whole school knew about it... We found out that she was wrong.Discover is a slightly more formal word than find, and is often used to talk about scientific research or formal investigations. For example, you can discover a cure for a particular disease. You can also use discover when you find something by accident. This well-known flower was discovered in 1903. Note that if you cannot see something that you are looking for, you say that you cannot find it. You do not use 'discover' or 'find out' in this way. I'm lost – I can't find the bridge. You can also say that someone finds out facts when this is easy to do, but you cannot use 'discover' or 'find' in this way. I found out the train times.
find, find out 和 discover 均可用来指得知某一事实：The young child finds that noise attracts attention(这个小孩发现弄出声响可以吸引注意力), He discovered the whole school knew about it (他发现整个学校都知道了此事), We found out that she was wrong (我们发现她错了)。discover比find略微正式，常用于谈论科学研究或正式调查。例如，可用 discover表示找到治愈某种疾病的方法。discover 还可表示偶然的发现：This well-known flower was discovered in 1903 (这种著名的花卉是在1903年发现的)。注意，如果表示看不到正在寻找的东西，要用find, 而不用discover 或find out：I'm lost — I can't find the bridge (我迷路了——我找不到那座桥)。find out 还可表示很容易便发现事实的情况，而discover 和find 却没有这种用法：I found out the train times (我查到了火车时刻)。
找到正确的路(去某处);成功地到达 If you find your way somewhere, you successfully get there by choosing the right way to go.&
【搭配模式】：V inflects
He was an expert at finding his way, even in strange surroundings...
他是认路的行家，即使在陌生的环境中也是如此。
After a while I pulled myself to my feet and found my way to the street.
过了一会儿我费力地站起身来，找到了那条大街。
(尤指某物偶然)去到(某处) If something finds its way somewhere, it comes to that place, especially by chance.&
【搭配模式】：V inflects
It is one of the very few Michelangelos that have found their way out of Italy...
这是少数几件流传到意大利境外的米开朗琪罗作品之一。
The most unlikely objects found their way into his design and look absolutely right where he placed them.
那些最不可能的东西出现于他的设计中，并且在他的安排下显得恰得其所。
to find fault with→see:
. to find one's feet→see:
PHRASAL VERB
(尤指特意通过努力)发现，找出，查明 If you find something out, you learn something that you did not already know, especially by making a deliberate effort to do so.&
【语法信息】：V P wh
【语法信息】：V P that
【语法信息】：V P n (not pron)
【语法信息】：V n P
【语法信息】：V P about n
【语法信息】：Also V P
It makes you want to watch the next episode to find out what's going to happen...
这让人想要看下一集，弄清紧接着会发生什么事。
I was relieved to find out that my problems were due to a genuine disorder...
得知我的问题确实是由于病症引起的，我松了口气。
Yesterday, the men's families held a news conference in their campaign to find out the truth...
昨天，这些男子的家人举行了记者招待会，以发起查明真相的运动。
PHRASAL VERB
查出…的不轨行为;揭发出 If you find someone out, you discover that they have been doing something dishonest.&
【语法信息】：V n P
Her face was so grave, I wondered for a moment if she'd found me out.
她的表情如此严肃，我一时怀疑她是不是已经知道了我干的事。
相关词组：
1. 找到, 发现
I have found the lost book.
我已经找到丢失的书了。
He found that the method worked.
他发现这方法行得通。
Please find Mary her bag.
请替玛丽找到她的提包。
She said she would find an electrician for us.
她说她要给我们找一个电工技师。
He couldn't find it in his heart abandoning her.
他发现他不能忘记她。
2. 发觉, 感到, 认为
Did you find him what he wanted?
你觉得他想要什么?
Mary tried several lines of work, but at last found herself as a teacher.
玛丽尝试了好几种工作, 最后她认为自己适合当教师。
We have found the farm (to) do well.
我们感觉到这个农场经营得好。
I found my headache coming on.
我觉得头开始疼起来了。
3. 到达; 努力获得; （经寻找、研究或思考）发现, 查明, 找出, 求得
What do you find the total?
你要求的总数是多少?
4. 供给, 供应; 知道…是有的; 现有（可用）
I can't find that amount of money.
我不能提供那笔款子。
5. 〈律〉判决, 裁决
The jury found against the plaintiff.
陪审团做出不利于原告的判决。
6. （意外或偶然地）发现，碰到
7. 发现（某事属实）
8. 发现，发觉（处于某状态、在做某事）
9. 事物自然到达；达到
10. （在某处）存在，生长
That old book is quite a find.
那本古书是一个重大发现。
The new finds have deepened our knowledge of giant ape.
新的发现物加深了我们对巨猿的认识。
3. 发现物，被发现的人（尤指有趣、有价值或有用者）
1. 裁决，判决，下判定
The jury found for the accused.
陪审团做出有利于被告的裁决。
2. [英国英语]【狩猎】发现猎物
1. a productive insight
2. the act of discovering something
1. come upon,
"We find this idea in Plato"
"I happened upon the most wonderful bakery not very far from here"
"She chanced upon an interesting book in the bookstore the other day"
2. discover or determine the existence, presence,
"She detected high levels of lead in her drinking water"
"We found traces of lead in the paint"
find the location of something tha
"Did you find your glasses?"
"I cannot find my gloves!"
4. after a calculation, investigation, experiment, survey,
"find the product of two numbers"
"The physicist who found the elusive particle won the Nobel Prize"
5. come to believe on the basis of emotion, intuitions, o
"I feel that he doesn't like me"
"I find him to be obnoxious"
"I found the movie rather entertaining"
6. perceive or be
"We found Republicans winning the offices"
"You'll see a lot of cheating in this school"
"I want to see results"
"The 1960 saw the rebellion of the younger generation against established traditions"
"I want to see results"
7. get something or somebody fo
"I found this gadget that will serve as a bottle opener"
"I got hold of these tools to fix our plumbing"
"The chairman got hold of a secretary on Friday night to type the urgent letter"
8. make a discovery,
"Roentgen discovered X-rays"
"Physicists believe they found a new elementary particle"
"She found that he had lied to her"
"The story is false, so far as I can discover"
10. obtain through
"She found the time and energy to take care of her aging parents"
"We found the money to send our sons to college"
11. decide on and make
"find someone guilty"
12. receive a specified treatment (abstract);
"These aspects of civilization do not find expression or receive an interpretation"
"His movie received a good review"
"I got nothing but trouble for my good intentions"
13. perceive oneself to be in a certai
"I found myself in a difficult situation"
"When he woke up, he found himself in a hospital room"
"She regained control of herself"
"She found her voice and replied quickly"
"The arrrow found its mark"
16. accept and make use of one's personality, abilities,
"My son went to Berkeley to find himself"
FIND的全称：
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Federal Information & News Dispatch, Inc.
联邦政府的信息和新闻调度、股份有限公司
Figure out the problem, Intensify possible solutions, Name pros and cons for each solution and Decide which solution is best and act on it (handling emergencies)
找出问题,加大可行的解决方案,为每一个利弊,决定哪些是最好的解决方案,它(处理突发事件)
Foundation for Innovative New Diagnostics
创新的新诊断的依据
FAA Internet National Directory
FAA互联网国家目录
Fault Isolation by Nodal Dependency
故障隔离节点的依赖
Filipino Intercollegiate Networking Dialogue
菲律宾校际联网的对话
Financial Information Net Directory
财务信息网目录
Findex。网景公司
Fiscal Impacts Of New Development
新开发的财政的影响
Florida Inland Navigation District
佛罗里达的内陆导航区
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